Don't miss the WHOLE POINT.

Whether you win or lose/ succeed or fail/ laugh or cry...doesn't really matter....The most important thing in any situation you face is that you DON'T LOSE YOUR SPIRITUAL STABILITY. Don't let the things you face change you...and take you lower than where you ought to be in your faith.

There are situations in life where you feel like you're right...but at the end you turn out to be wrong. There are also situations where you feel somewhat wrong...but at the end you turn out to be right. Some situations may even be just harmless...they may even seem pointless because they have no frustration involved. In-between the situation and the results you get, you find yourself busy trying to find out whether you're right or wrong...trying to fight the battle between winning and losing...and in the midst of that busyness, you can lose yourself...trying to figure things might distract you from the main point of all that happens. God allows all these circumstances into our lives for a deeper reason than the results we get in the physical realm. See, the WHOLE POINT of encountering any situation (whether good or bad) is not just so you can be right or wrong/ happy or sad/ pass or fail/ win or lose, although these are realities of life...all situations that you as a Christian face are to TEST YOUR INTEGRITY (internal consistency/ inner stability) in your faith/walk with God. Whether you are right or wrong/win or lose/ pass or fail is not the main point. The main point is: throughout your experience in happiness or frustration (regardless of what the outcome is), do your remain in your place in God...or you allow the hype of your circumstances to take over you. That's the main point of all that happens, no matter how big or small. So, I have decided that no matter how much happiness, frustration or pain I face in life....I will keep my focus on my spiritual standing. So, whether I'm right or wrong/ pass or fail/ lose or win/ laugh or cry...I'll focus on keeping my spirit in the right position...because after all this hype of happiness and sadness...the spirit remains...and that's all that matters after all.